Decisions have terrified me. Part fear of missing out, part I don’t know what the heck I’m doing, part what if I make the wrong choice…I would try to look at each decision and see all the possible outcomes, feel out all the consequences and come to a decision that feels right. This takes me ages. I can hardly keep up with the pace of the decisions I need to make for myself…never mind the thousands and thousands (millions?) I’m going to need to make for my children. I know I’m doomed to a life of struggle if I don’t change the way I see and make decisions. I don’t know if you feel the same way, but I bet many people would list decision making in the stressful rather than fun category.
What if you imagined for a moment that every decision you made for your children (and yourself) was the right one? That means that no matter what it looks like on the surface, whatever consequences come along with it are perfect...